I have observed that accepting a person is different from agreeing with that person. Acceptance is of the person and agreement/disagreement is of thoughts. A lot of times in relationships when one disagrees with someone then that person often takes this disagreement as non-acceptance (rejection). Leading to a feeling of unease or even sometimes a feeling of hostility.
Also at times if one agrees with something someone is expressing then that is generally taken as acceptance of that person by the person who has been agreed with.
I have discovered that if one is able to maintain a distinction between Acceptance and Agreement and also keeps indicating this difference in relationships then life becomes a lot easier.
I know I can see and understand, and I believe so can you. This blog is an attempt to share with you my observations about life, relationships and human behaviour. These are my opinions - 'My Insights', which have helped me in my journey. My writings are an expression of my conviction in these observations. I am not looking for people to agree or disagree with me ☺, just want them to know that this is how I see life. If you too have some insights to share then feel free to comment.
Showing posts with label Acceptence. Show all posts
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Friday, December 22, 2006
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